tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2632611338168133022.post2408883494568805334..comments2024-03-28T04:08:52.283-07:00Comments on readergirlz: April: Have you ever been in a life or death situation?readergirlzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05454818345877688527noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2632611338168133022.post-12409263148462976212016-01-11T17:51:10.664-08:002016-01-11T17:51:10.664-08:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15099028657292382264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2632611338168133022.post-55236703112091654902009-04-20T21:33:00.000-07:002009-04-20T21:33:00.000-07:00I don't think this is a situation I would ever wan...I don't think this is a situation I would ever want to experience.<br /><br />LesleyLlehnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03808225636111637085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2632611338168133022.post-53996756517214044692009-04-20T20:32:00.000-07:002009-04-20T20:32:00.000-07:00Car accidents are the closest I have come to being...Car accidents are the closest I have come to being in a life and death situation. I was taken by ambulance to the hospital with a concussion when I was fifteen. I have never had to deal with someone else being in a life and death situation, one where I had to make split second decisions. The closest thing I had was when my cat of 18 years had to be put to sleep. That was so traumatic I can't even imagine what would happen with a person.Dia Calhounhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14292548122662586492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2632611338168133022.post-40784900056297269022009-04-20T09:36:00.000-07:002009-04-20T09:36:00.000-07:00Oh, Justina. This will always weigh down my heart....Oh, Justina. This will always weigh down my heart. <br /><br />I'm so thankful you were able to help your friend, Ellen!<br /><br />Yes, Vanessa was ill herself when she passed her mother by. I've never been in a situation like this before. Thankfully...Lorie Ann Groverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07894901682181719593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2632611338168133022.post-87263728973729020222009-04-18T22:22:00.000-07:002009-04-18T22:22:00.000-07:00Ellen, one of my friends committed suicide, and I ...Ellen, one of my friends committed suicide, and I wish I had received a call so that I could have tried to talk him out of it. That said, in hindsight, he was giving off signals that I just didn't read correctly when I was 21.Justina Chenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09467995633452012663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2632611338168133022.post-486765886957619012009-04-18T14:37:00.000-07:002009-04-18T14:37:00.000-07:00I have actually talked a friend (who is bipolar, l...I have actually talked a friend (who is bipolar, like Vanessa) out of attempted suicides twice. Thank goodness she called me before she pulled the trigger. She became suicidal because she cold turkeyed off her meds, like Conner. So you can see where some of these scenes came from.Ellen Hopkinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01800131582682938171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2632611338168133022.post-77739189804676913162009-04-18T14:35:00.000-07:002009-04-18T14:35:00.000-07:00You have to remember Vanessa herself was mentally ...You have to remember Vanessa herself was mentally unstable at the time. It wasn't really revenge. As she saw it, she was doing her mother a favor in a way... and maybe saving herself and her brother from hurt.Ellen Hopkinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01800131582682938171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2632611338168133022.post-13196695717203668442009-04-18T12:03:00.000-07:002009-04-18T12:03:00.000-07:00I've never faced anything that traumatic. If I had...I've never faced anything that traumatic. If I had been in that position, I would call 911. The former lifeguard in me would just leap into response mode. As cupcakewitch wrote, every life has value and you have no right to go against that, no matter how complex your feelings about a person might be.Shelf Elfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18411801633280373756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2632611338168133022.post-52776696678850137492009-04-17T15:38:00.000-07:002009-04-17T15:38:00.000-07:00I have never been in that particular situation but...I have never been in that particular situation but I have experienced similar things... <br />I am a firm believer that no matter what, ALWAYS call 911. Even if it's the worst person in the world I am sure their life has some value!Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08929361333038091363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2632611338168133022.post-15084325857979420202009-04-17T14:34:00.000-07:002009-04-17T14:34:00.000-07:00I've never been in this situation, but I can see a...I've never been in this situation, but I can see a person getting to a point where they're worn down by a parent's behavior. And maybe unsure. And so they let that moment--the moment to call 911--pass by.Melissa Walkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17130128666084908687noreply@blogger.com